Sep
23
Why isn’t the Law of Attraction working for me?
By Rusty Parrish
When you have taken all the actions required to achieve your goal, let go! I say that because if you do not move on than you will hover over your intention waiting for results. As human being we find it hard to demonstrate patients for more than an hour. And when we are focusing on results and the only things we see are no results it makes it very easy to put negative emotion into our intention and immediately make it fail! Don’t worry because it is only human to get excited. But the good news is that you are learning how to control the outcome. Make an intention, take action when you are inspired, when all the action required is completed, LET GO!
I know that sometimes many of us are completely down hearted. We have studied the law of attraction and have tried so hard to make things work. We created things in our minds that we were sure to have great success with. But at the end of almost every dream was failure. What happened? We were happy, we stayed positive and in most cases we feel that we really believed and had faith that what we were creating or working on would manifest. Often times I would follow someone who was successful and do exactly what they did to be successful. I would follow the directions so that it would be exact. But guess what? It was exact, except the financial reward was a failure. How could this be?
When I started learning about the law of attraction I was so excited, it opened up a door to a new world for me. In a way I was more successful before I knew about the law of attraction. Because once I became aware that I had complete control; I began to have complete control. The problem was I didn’t yet know how to control the negative thoughts that would enter my head.
The first step is getting control of your emotions and the only way to do that is to learn how to control your thoughts. If you are feeling sad or unhappy don’t set and wonder why you feel that way. Analyzing why your unhappy only feeds a little more fuel to the fire. Instead “STOP”! Immediately and deliberately turn your back on that unhappy thought and try you best to think of something that makes you feel Good or happy or grateful. Don’t say I am going to be happy as if your battling the negative emotion. Instead say “I am so happy” while you think about something that makes you happy. It will only be a couple of weeks and you will start to see those negative emotions come less frequently. It won’t be long after that when you will stop and realize it has been weeks since you have had a negative thought.
One reason we don’t have the same result of someone we followed is because we didn’t truly expect it at a subconscious level. We may have thought we did, but but we did not convey that belief to our subconscious mind. As Napoleon Hill wrote ” Your belief, or faith, is the element which determines the actions of your subconscious mind”. And it is the subconscious mind that communicates your beliefs directly to the Universe.
Early on I would create a business venture with the faith and belief that it would be successful. But what is “it”. Was it money? If it was, how much? Was it traffic to what I was selling? If it was, how much? The problem was I wasn’t focusing on the end result. Sure I was creating a business but for what reason precisely? We have to be exact if we want to convey the message to our subconscious mind! If we don’t get the message to our subconscious mind than our subconscious mind can not make the command to the universe. You are then left to chance.
So how can we master faith? It is so easy for people to tell us just believe. Some people actually can just believe if they choose. But most of us need a little more than just a nudge from a guru telling us to just believe. We need to know how to believe something that we don’t. But we first need to know what faith really is.
So many people have different definitions of faith, but the one I like the best is from Napoleon Hill in the book “Think and grow Rich” He said, ” Faith is the head chemist of the mind. When faith is blended with thought, the subconscious mind instantly pick up the vibration, translates it into it’s spiritual equivalent, and transmutes it to infinite intelligence, as in the case of prayer”.
Simply put, when you believe something and you blend that belief with strong emotion; your subconscious mind instantly picks up the vibration of the strong emotionalized belief and sends your desire out to the universe. But another question remains; how do I do that? The answer is autosuggestion.
Meditationis the best form of autosuggestion. I listen to a meditative cd every night and depending on what I want determines the suggestion that I give my subconscious mind. If I want money I mentally mantra to myself ” Money comes so easy to me, thank you”. After time you will want to meditate but you really will not have to. It seems as though you condition yourself to instantly send good vibrations to your subconscious mind.
While meditatingset up in a comfortable chair so that you will not go to sleep. Take deep breaths, close your eyes and start to relax. Start at the top and relax your scalp, move to your eyes and relax them, go to your ears and relax them, move to your jaw and than your tongue. Next move to your neck and than chest, relax your arms and than fingers. Move to each leg individually and relax your feet and toes. This should take about 8 minutes. Do not open your eyes. Take another breath and count down from five ” I am so relaxed” Four ” I am completely inside myself” 3 ” I am now in spirit separated from my body” two ” I am deeper relaxed” 1 ” I am here”. You should now be in deep mind so try not to startle yourself. You now have access to your subconscious mind. Start by imaging that you have what you desire. Keep your mantra “Money loves me or anything you desire” repeat it while telling your self it is on it’s way. Do this until you feel satisfied. Exit the same way, count from ten backwards while starting to move your limbs. Do not just open your eyes because if you are in a deep state it can be frightening. Just take your time. If necessary do this 20 minutes a day until you know that you know. That is a good trick that works on the subconscious mind. ” I know that I know that I will be or have etc:
So for now that is all I have, well I have much more but my fingers are tired. I am considering creating a 60 min audio regarding the method of developing faith. Please show your interest by Email. lawofattraction62@yahoo.com If there are enough people interested I will gladly create audio.
Love
Rusty